I’ve been interested in self-discovery for a while, and have learned a lot about myself which has improved my life tremendously. The opportunity to continue that journey with a local Christchurch-based organisation, which my peers in the Financial Services industry have also engaged and raved about, was too good of an opportunity to pass up.
Over the last 5 years i’ve experienced a lot of turbulence in my life with Covid stopping me from seeing my family in Australia for a while, my marriage ending, becoming a single dad, all whilst running my own mortgage and insurance business. I experienced stress, loneliness, and anxiety during that time. Even though i’ve moved on from those emotions, more recently I felt like i’d plateaued, and whilst I was content with my life, i wasn’t feeling joy, and so i wanted to identify why i made the decisions i did so i could make better decisions which aligned with my real purpose in life.
Rico and the NeuroFit programme gave me a method to help me investigate and understand how my past directly affects my current decisions, beliefs, and behaviours. Being able to investigate my past in a non-judgmental and objective way helped me make incisive discoveries about why i am the way i am, think the way i do, and why i make certain decisions.
I’ve always prided myself on taking accountability and avoided “blaming my parents” or others for who and how i am, but Neurofit helped me understand that it’s ok to reflect on your past and the people who influenced you to see how your experiences and interactions with the people around me heavily influenced how i think and behave. Whilst i can’t change what happened or erase the memories, I can decide on the type of dynamic i want to have going forward with the people in my life.
Now, I’m able to pause and reflect before making a decision, because now i’m aware of the “autopilot” response, and I can take time to make better decisions which better align with the person, father and partner i want to be.
I would strongly recommend Neurofit to anyone who thinks or feels like they’re not getting the best out of themselves, or are possibly unhappy with aspects of their lives, or want to be able to make better decisions.